However, for every online testimonial that greets the lovelorn masses, there is a story of bitterness and spite. A growing number of Web sites now traffic in the business of warning women (and sometimes men) about prospective mates who have a very loose relationship with the truth.

Welcome to the online antidote for a broken heart. Web sites such as www.DontDateHimGirl.com, www.WomanSavers.com (formerly www.ManHaters.com), and www.TrueDater.com have taken up the call to expose liars and cheats before they have a chance to make a fool of you. Call it the online version of the popular reality show "Cheaters."

Rewarding the Faithful

On DontDateHimGirl.com, jilted or cheated-on lovers, girlfriends, and wives can post a picture of their significant offender and list all the gory details of the philandering for the entire world to see. Think you might have a cheater on your hands? The site also has a search engine through which you can seek a scoundrel by name, city, or keyword.

Those who need or want to learn more about a questionable prospect can submit an e-mail message or go to the site's blog. In an attempt at some degree of fairness, if people feel they know a man who has been maligned unjustly, they can post a rebuttal that will be included with the other comments under his name.

"It's like a dating credit report," Tasha C. Joseph, DontDateHimGirl.com's creator, said in an interview with The New York Times.

WomanSavers.com offers a questionnaire that evaluates men on a scale of zero to 122. The guys earn points if they inspire statements such as "he has the perfect balance of humility and confidence," but lose them if women post buzzwords like "stinks," "has body odor," "bad breath," and "doesn't care."

Joseph, a public-relations specialist from Miami, said that roughly 170,000 women have registered to use DontDateHimGirl.com and that the site's members have posted the lowdown on some 3,000 men.

While many women say the sites perform a valuable service , some men, not surprisingly, have taken a dim view of the trend. (continued...)

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